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The Three F's Of Thanksgiving
By James Brown
If a being from another planet crash landed in the United States
on the fourth Thursday of November they would notice almost
every household was eating a similar meal, not working and
watching a very strange game on television. Using a language
translator, the alien might ask you, "What's this all
about?" That would be your chance to describe in detail the
foundational elements of this day we call Thanksgiving. But what
are the foundational elements of the day we call Thanksgiving?
No longer a day simply for faith, Thanksgiving in the United
States has garnered a much more secular and broad meaning.
It's about food
While almost every family adds its own regional flair to the
traditional Thanksgiving dinner, be it salsa in Texas or clam
chowder in Boston, the meal pretty much stays the same.
Thanksgiving is the time to sit down with turkey, corn,
stuffing, cranberries (although no one seems to know how that
sneaked into this dinner) and pumpkin pie. We are taught in
school the first Thanksgiving was a meal of thanks between
pilgrims and Native Americans. Although it is unlikely, we are
told this is what they ate. It doesn't matter that it's
historically inaccurate because food has a place in our mind in
memory far beyond the nitpicking of a few college professors.
This is the meal our parents, grandparents, and their parents
ate on Thanksgiving and it's the meal that we will be eating
too. Participating in this feast of fowl and fun brings us a
sense of cultural identity which is a large part of this holiday
in the first place.
It's about family
The days before and after Thanksgiving are some of the top
travel holidays of the year. People drive, fly, and pray to be
together with loved ones to share this meal and celebrate the
things that they are thankful for. It is not the act of being
around the dinner table that is important; it is the actual
gathering across miles and generations to share stories,
affirmations, and hope. An altruistic holiday, where the focus
of being together isn't to receive presents or celebrate
achievements but simply to give thanks for the people in our
lives, Thanksgiving is a family builder like no other.
It's about football
Of course, with every long standing tradition come some unusual
entries. Into this country's celebration is football with annual
games featuring the Dallas Cowboys and the Detroit Lions. This
masculine ritual of sitting down after a hearty meal and
watching the teams battle for yardage and ball possession is as
much a part of the fun and fellowship of the tradition as
praying and eating.
The fourth F in thanksgiving is faith. Because America is a
country diverse in its religious aspects, that F does not unify
us the way the other three do. However, every one who pauses to
give thanks to someone in some way for the food, family, and
football they have enjoyed is participating in this rite of joy.
About the Author: James Brown writes about Six
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